Written & Reviewed by
Gaston Molina
Published on
July 5, 2023

What is OCD?

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a mental health condition characterized by intrusive thoughts and repetitive behaviors that individuals feel compelled to perform. It is estimated that approximately 2.3% of the global population is affected by OCD. The disorder can manifest in a variety of ways, such as obsessive thoughts about contamination, a need for symmetry, or persistent doubts. These thoughts and behaviors can significantly impact an individual’s daily life, leading to distress and interference with normal functioning.

The Different Types of OCD

OCD is not a one-size-fits-all disorder; it presents itself in various forms. Some common types of OCD include:

  • Contamination OCD: This subtype involves an intense fear of germs, dirt, or contamination. Individuals may engage in excessive handwashing or avoid specific places or objects they perceive as contaminated.
  • Checking OCD: People with checking OCD have an overwhelming fear of harm or danger. They may repeatedly check locks, appliances, or electrical switches to alleviate their anxiety.
  • Symmetry and Order OCD: This subtype revolves around the need for things to be arranged symmetrically or in a specific order. Individuals may spend excessive amounts of time organizing and rearranging items to achieve perfection.
  • Intrusive Thoughts OCDIntrusive thoughts are unwanted, distressing thoughts that pop into one’s mind without control. These thoughts often involve violent or taboo subjects and can cause intense anxiety.

What Does OCD Feel Like?

Living with OCD can be an incredibly challenging experience. The disorder is not simply a personality quirk or a preference for cleanliness; it is a debilitating condition that affects every aspect of an individual’s life. OCD can feel like being trapped in a never-ending loop of irrational thoughts and compulsive actions.

Imagine constantly being bombarded by intrusive thoughts that evoke intense fear or discomfort. These thoughts may be irrational, but they feel very real and can trigger overwhelming anxiety. To relieve the anxiety, individuals with OCD typically engage in compulsive behaviors or mental rituals. These rituals act as temporary relief, providing a sense of control and reducing anxiety. However, this relief is short-lived, as the obsessions and compulsions inevitably return, perpetuating the cycle.

The Sensations of OCD

OCD can have a profound impact on various aspects of an individual’s daily life. It can disrupt relationships, hinder academic or professional performance, and diminish the overall quality of life. The constant presence of obsessions and compulsions can be mentally and physically exhausting, making it difficult to focus on other tasks or enjoy activities.

In addition to the time consumed by OCD rituals, individuals may also experience significant distress when their routines are interrupted or when they are unable to engage in their compulsions. This can lead to avoidance behaviors and social isolation as they try to minimize triggers and maintain a semblance of control.

The Impact of OCD on Daily Life

If you suspect that you are in a manipulative relationship, it’s important to take action.

The first step is to recognize the signs of manipulation, as described above. Once you’ve identified that you are being manipulated, it’s important to set boundaries with the manipulator. This may mean telling them that their behavior is unacceptable and refusing to engage with them until they change their behavior.

It’s also important to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist. Talking to someone you trust can help you gain perspective on the situation and give you the strength to make changes. If the manipulator is unwilling to change their behavior, it may be necessary to end the relationship.

Seeking Therapist Help for OCD

  • Self-help books and online resources can provide valuable insights and practical techniques for managing OCD symptoms.
  • Engaging in activities such as art therapy, exercise, or hobbies can serve as healthy outlets for reducing anxiety and redirecting focus.
  • Practicing self-compassion exercises, such as challenging self-critical thoughts and practicing self-care, can contribute to a more supportive internal dialogue.
  • Practicing mindfulness and meditation can help individuals cultivate a non-judgmental awareness of their thoughts and sensations. This can reduce the urge to engage in compulsive behaviors and promote a sense of calm.
  • Keeping a journal allows individuals to express their thoughts and emotions related to OCD. It can be a helpful tool for identifying triggers, tracking progress, and gaining insights into patterns of obsessive thoughts and compulsive behaviors.
  • Engaging in regular exercise, maintaining a balanced diet, and getting enough sleep can contribute to overall mental well-being. These habits can help reduce stress and provide a foundation for managing OCD symptoms effectively.

Support Systems for Individuals with OCD

Building a support system is crucial for individuals with OCD. Surrounding oneself with understanding and compassionate individuals can provide a sense of validation and reduce feelings of isolation. Support can come from various sources, including friends, family members, support groups, or online communities.

Support groups specifically tailored for individuals with OCD can offer a safe space to share experiences, exchange coping strategies, and gain emotional support. Online communities, such as forums and social media groups, can also provide valuable insights and connections with others who understand the challenges of living with OCD.

Overcoming the Stigma Surrounding OCD

Despite the prevalence of OCD, there is still a significant stigma surrounding the disorder. Misconceptions and stereotypes can lead to individuals with OCD feeling ashamed or misunderstood. Overcoming this stigma requires education and open conversations about mental health. By raising awareness and promoting empathy, we can create a more inclusive and supportive environment for individuals with OCD.


Living with OCD is a complex and challenging experience. The intrusive thoughts, compulsions, and sensations associated with the disorder can be overwhelming and significantly impact an individual’s daily life. However, with the right support, therapy, and coping strategies, it is possible to manage OCD effectively and improve overall well-being. Remember, if you or someone you know is experiencing symptoms of OCD, seeking professional help is essential. Together, we can unravel the mysteries of OCD and promote understanding and support for those affected by this condition.

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